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The Anger Nobody Told You Was Coming

The Anger Nobody Told You Was Coming

Most accounts of what happens after a late diagnosis mention grief. They mention the relief of the correct explanation, the sadness for … Read more

who are you without the mask?

Who Are You Without the Mask? Finding Yourself After a Late Diagnosis

At some point after the diagnosis — sometimes immediately, sometimes months later — a question surfaces that you may not have been … Read more

Twice Exceptional Women: Gifted and Struggling: When Being Capable Has Always Made the Real Difficulties Invisible

Twice Exceptional Women: Gifted and Struggling: When Being Capable Has Always Made the Real Difficulties Invisible

Twice Exceptional Women: You were always the capable one. The one who picked things up quickly. Who could read something once and … Read more

Perfectionism Was Never the Problem: It Was the Solution

Perfectionism Was Never the Problem: It Was the Solution

You’ve been called a perfectionist your whole life, usually as a gentle criticism—something to work on. A flaw dressed up as a … Read more