How the Story of Yourself Gets Written in Childhood

The Story of Yourself

How the Story of Yourself Gets Written in Childhood

And Why It’s So Hard to Revise The voice that tells you you’re too much, not enough, fundamentally difficult has been with … Read more

who are you without the mask?

Who Are You Without the Mask? Finding Yourself After a Late Diagnosis

At some point after the diagnosis — sometimes immediately, sometimes months later — a question surfaces that you may not have been … Read more

Perfectionism Was Never the Problem: It Was the Solution

Perfectionism Was Never the Problem: It Was the Solution

You’ve been called a perfectionist your whole life, usually as a gentle criticism—something to work on. A flaw dressed up as a … Read more